You probably say "yes" a lot to other people. But, what about you? When was the last time you said yes to something you've wanted for so long? What does it mean to say yes to yourself?
Always giving yes not just to the people around you but in every situation where you need to make a decision is not bad at all. It's just has a limit. Saying yes sometimes bring and open new opportunities for us to grow ourselves. Sometimes, it leads us to a bigger world where we can fulfil our dreams and aspirations in life. However, we should not forget to see for ourselves if saying yes to all those things will bring us happiness and contentment. If it does, then go for it. Opportunity comes once in life. But if it wasn't, then be kind to yourself and say no. But why is it important to learn how to say yes to yourself?
Saying yes to yourself means allowing yourself to do the things you want to do without thinking about what other people would say about how you decide on your life or why you choose to be that person. Yes, you may acknowledge their thoughts and opinions, but it is always up to you in the end. It's not about being self-centered, but it's about giving yourself the chance to do and choose your own opinion. Doing this can help you discover something new about yourself.
Be open to possibilities and opportunities. Just like what they say, life is like a box of chocolate. It has full of surprises. You have to experience this by embracing all the possible things that may come. Never let anyone tell you what to feel and what you need to do. This is not their life anyway, it's yours.
Be confident. I know there's something inside you that makes you different and beautiful. Learn how to recognize your strengths and weaknesses. This way, you can unfold something new and fresh about yourself. But, don't be too hard, also. Take your time. You don't need to force yourself to discover or unravel something.
When you feel tired, do all things that will make you happy. Reward yourself for all your hard work. Watch a movie, eat your favourite food, go on a date or try an outdoor adventure. Satisfy your soul, not the society. Just do all the things that will make you happy.
Give value to yourself. Sometimes, we ignore this idea of seeing how worthy we are as a person. We fail to value and prioritize ourselves because we keep on saying yes to our surroundings. Let's not forget to have the courage to design our life and do the things that will bring us joy, pleasure, and happiness. Bring something that will motivate and drive us to be the best version of ourselves.
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